There's a phrase that gets thrown around a lot in personal finance circles: "be your own bank." It sounds like a slogan until you actually see how it works. Infinite banking isn't about avoiding banks entirely — it's about building a financial structure, usually through a specific type of life insurance policy, that lets you borrow against your own cash value instead of asking someone else's institution for a loan.

What the Infinite Banking Strategy Actually Does

At its foundation, an infinite banking strategy uses a whole life insurance policy with a cash value component. You pay premiums, a portion builds cash value over time, and that cash value can be borrowed against without going through a bank's approval process or reporting to a credit bureau. You're the lender and the borrower. The insurance company facilitates it, but the terms are yours to manage.

The appeal is control. Traditional financing means someone else sets the rate, the term, and the approval criteria. With a ...

I see many of you struggling to wrap your head around cash value life insurance and figuring out how to fund these accounts long term. In this email I wanted to focus on the fundamentals that I personally have in place before I even have a conversation with any insurance agent. These fundamentals help me come to the table prepared when talking to an insurance agent so I can tell him or her exactly what I want. Often times when talking to an agent the conversation is typically around the design of the policy, pros and cons, etc which is very important. At the same time it would be wise for you the client to come prepared and competent when speaking to an agent. Remember most insurance agents are not financial coaches/consultants or advisors so the agents job is to make sure you are insured and fully understand the product you are purchasing. They are not typically going to provide financial coaching to you to make the best decision. I recommend if you have a financial coach/consultant o...